Depends on how old you guys are. I mean, when he wants to talk to your dad that you don’t see often it has to be something big. Proposal? I don’t know, it’s a longshot but possible. Maybe a trip or pet or something. Something big for sure. Let us know what it ends up being!

This is the perfect time to write your number on the receipt. DO IT. He’ll for sure hollaaaaa.

Yes, of course. I know it’s not really considered the norm anymore but I absolutely believe that if two people really commit to waiting and they truly love each other then I don’t see why it couldn’t work. Sex isn’t everything. Yes, it can help a relationship but it can also hurt. In the absolute long run, yes it is an important part of the relationship because humans have biological needs but not until then is it essential in my opinion. 

It’s very possible that he could just be busy with his car. I understand having little to no time to just do whatever you want and it sucks. But at the same time, regardless of my schedule, I’m going to do my best to try and find time for my girl. That’s the way it should be. Honestly, I think in this situation it would a good idea to leave him alone for a bit and see if he comes to you. If he doesn’t, well then, there’s your answer. But if he pays a little more attention to you then you know to go on with things. Just be careful to not overdo it. Guys spook easy when he thinks a girl could cling in the future. 

Just that. That she’s complicated. Girls tend to have a hard time making up their minds about all sorts of things and say things but really mean something else and get upset because things aren’t perfect the way they imagined and get offended for silly little things and blow things out of proportion. I could keep going and I’m not trying to bash girls because I adore women and couldn’t live without them but it’s just the fact of the matter. Guys are extremely flawed as well but for the most part, at least I think, guys are simpler. Are there complicated guys out there? Yes, of course. Are there simpler girls out there? Yes, of course. Again, I’m forced to speak in generalities. But anyway, basically he means that he’s having a hard time understanding you. That’s all.

While it is really lame of him to have never texted you and there isn’t really a good reason for him to do that. The only possible thing I can even come up with is the fact that he didn’t want to feel like he was being unfaithful in any way with his new girlfriend. Even then, a text saying that things are a no-go would have been the decent thing to do or something. Move on from him and find someone who is willing to give you the time of day like you deserve.

This is one of those things that you can’t get yourself overthink. He’s happy right now and that’s what matters. The future is unpredictable. Chances of staying together forever are against the odds and I don’t say that to be a dickhead but just stating facts. But you guys could just as well be perfect for each other and really be together forever. It just means he’s happy right now and that he wants to be with you for the foreseeable future and for nowww. That should be enough. 

2/2 our friendship if it doesnt work out. Also i want to lose my virginity with him cuz he is the only boy that i want to lose it too && whom i trust with all my life. his fam loves me & mine loves him too. my friends tell me i can do better but i dont think so. I think i might be in love with my best friend but i dont know im confused. help me! is this normal?? :P

If you ask me, you guys are already in love. Taking the risk and finding out what you guys are capable is so worth the risk. At least, it’s one I would take. You guys have what people dream of having. Recognize the fact that you’re blessed and run with it. So to answer your question… is it normal? Yes, it’s normal to feel that way when you’re in love. Absolutely. 

(2/2) It would’ve been fine if he hadn’t really continued his flirting. He even gives me tips on how I should act and do girly stuff. He often says how pretty and how amazing I am. My intuition screams sometimes that he feels more strongly now, but once bitten twice shy. It’s a constant case of he-likes-me-likes-me-not. Is it just my fantasy that’s tinting his actions in a way it’s not? Or he has actually developed some feelings now? Am I supposed to look at a particular hint from his side?

This is a tough one. I know exactly what you mean. I’m often amazed at what the human mind can conjure up without meaning to so a part of me thinks that it may be just a case of wishful thinking but at the same time there’s the part of me that knows how great a romantic relationship between friends can be. I’ve been in this exact situation before. It really is tough. I mean, maybe if there is a particular moment when the evidence is overbearing then maybe you could ask again. Be real with yourself though and ask if it’s just your mind. I wish I could give you a better answer. Go with your gut. It’s better to say ‘Oh well’ than to wonder ‘What if?’.

(continued) as soon as we started texting, he stopped texting me back. I said hi, this is “my name”, he said “hey you” and I asked how he was doing but he just stopped texting me. I don’t know what to think. Can you help me out?

It could be as simple as he was busy and couldn’t text then he forgot about it. Have you guys talked since then? Some people don’t like texting and don’t make it a priority regardless of who’s on the other end. Is it a little rude or inconsiderate? Yeah, sure but you can’t make anybody respond. If it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t work out. You can’t let little things like this bear too much weight. Just go with the flow and things like these will work themselves out for the best.